If you are considering an abortion, your first consultation is an opportunity for your doctor to understand your individual circumstances before recommending treatment. Although you may be asked a range of questions, each one helps build a clearer picture of your pregnancy and overall health.
Understanding what information your abortion doctor needs, and why it is important, can help you prepare for your appointment and make informed decisions about your care.
Confirming the Stage of Pregnancy
One of the first steps during your consultation is confirming how far the pregnancy has progressed. This is usually done with an ultrasound, which provides more accurate information than relying on your last menstrual period alone.
Knowing the stage of pregnancy helps your doctor determine whether surgical abortion or medical abortion is more appropriate. It also identifies whether additional preparation, such as medication to prepare the cervix before surgery, may be needed.
Ensuring Treatment Is Safe
Before any treatment is recommended, your doctor will review your overall health to identify any factors that could affect the safety of the procedure or the use of anaesthesia.
This may include discussing:
- Existing medical conditions
- Current medications and supplements
- Medication, latex or anaesthetic allergies
- Previous reactions to anaesthesia
Providing accurate information helps your doctor plan your treatment safely and minimise potential risks.
Questions You May Be Asked During Your Consultation
Every consultation is different, but there are several questions your doctor may ask to better understand your health and pregnancy.
- When was the first day of your last menstrual period?
- Have you been pregnant before?
- Do you have any medical conditions?
- Are you taking any medications?
- Have you had any previous gynaecological procedures?
Some questions may seem routine, but each one helps your doctor build a complete clinical picture before recommending treatment.
Preparing for Your Consultation
Being prepared for your appointment can help make the consultation more productive and ensure your concerns are addressed.
Before attending, it may be helpful to:
- Write down any questions you would like to ask
- Bring a list of your current medications and supplements
- Have details of any relevant medical history available, if possible
- Allow enough time for the consultation and any assessments that may be required
Taking a few moments to prepare beforehand can help you feel more informed and make the discussion with your doctor more meaningful.
What Happens After Your Consultation?
Once your assessment has been completed, your doctor will explain the findings and discuss the treatment options available to you.
Depending on your circumstances, the next steps may include arranging counselling where required, providing instructions to prepare for treatment or scheduling the procedure for a later appointment. Your doctor will also explain what to expect before, during and after treatment so that you have the information needed to make an informed decision.
A Well-Prepared Consultation Starts with the Right Information
Your consultation is an opportunity to share important information, ask questions and gain a clear understanding of the treatment recommended for your circumstances. Arriving prepared and providing accurate information allows your doctor to assess your pregnancy thoroughly and plan the next steps with greater clarity.
At the Women's Clinic of Singapore, consultations are designed to provide a safe and confidential space where you can discuss your circumstances and understand your treatment options. Under the care of Dr Jen Shek Wei, you will receive personalised guidance, clear explanations and treatment recommendations tailored to your individual needs. If you are looking for an abortion doctor to discuss your situation, schedule a consultation today.
Frequently Asked Questions About Abortion Consultations
What if I don't know exactly how many weeks pregnant I am?
That's completely understandable, as not everyone is certain of their pregnancy dates. An ultrasound performed during your consultation can accurately determine the stage of pregnancy and help guide the most appropriate treatment recommendation.
Can I bring someone with me to my consultation?
Yes, if it makes you feel more comfortable. Many women choose to bring a partner, family member or friend for support during their consultation. If you would prefer to speak with your doctor privately at any point, this can also be arranged.
What should I wear to my consultation?
There are no specific clothing requirements for your consultation. However, wearing comfortable, loose-fitting clothing may make any physical examination or ultrasound more convenient. Your doctor will explain each step beforehand and ensure you understand what to expect before any assessment is performed.
What if I change my mind after the consultation?
A consultation is intended to provide you with the information you need to make an informed decision, not to pressure you into treatment. If you decide that you need more time to consider your options, discuss this with your doctor, who can advise you on the appropriate next steps based on your circumstances.
